Trouble in paradise

yesterday I was walking to meet my boyfriend of over a year. As I came up to great him
I caught him staring at a 7th grade girl (BTW we are both 17) and I wanted to throw up... as u can guess like most junior high kids she was putting on quiet a show with her short, shorts and way to low cut v-neck. He turned around and saw my face and ran after me when I turned away. Not understanding why I was mad. I cant express how angry I was. My expectations of a man are very high and In a moment like that I expect him to portray his self control and "love" for me by looking away. His excuse was that "all guys do it" and since the first day we were together he said "he wasn't like the other guys" so I threw that back in his face. Immature I know but I was in the worst mood that day because well... would he rather me flaunt what I mean even know I am no were near fat! I am not super slender, but I am not fat and I could walk around showing off my DD girls. but I don't cause I know that other guys would look and he wouldn't like that. Also I look at it as a modesty thing the only person who should see me like that is the person I am with, not the entire world.

I guess what I am wondering is, I know that what I expect is not that bad because I know lots of couples and men who are faithful in there hearts, mind, and body. They have trouble yes who wouldn't in this world but that do's not just give you a free pass to be a pervert. I am not a Bible freak or a preacher But I do believe the Bible is a good guide line of how we should treat each other and especially how we should treat the people we love and our selves. "But I say to you that everyone who looks at a women with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Mathew 5:28

P.S. Tyler cried multiple times yesterday when I shut down and wouldn't look or talk to him after I explained why I was mad. In fear of me breaking up he promised to change... with that I told him that words wouldn't cut it I had to see him make the change.

question for the readers: what I am wondering ladies is do you expect this much from your man?